Missed connections 1/5-1/12

by | Jan 13, 2015 | POLITICS

The New Year is a chance to start over with a “clean slate,” to do all the things you said you were going to do last New Year’s. If you are single you might want to find a prospective mate or finally fess up to your crush. Or maybe this year you might want to throw all caution to the wind and just be as out there as possible.


The New Year is a chance to start over with a “clean slate,” to do all the things you said you were going to do last New Year’s. If you are single you might want to find a prospective mate or finally fess up to your crush. Or maybe this year you might want to throw all caution to the wind and just be as out there as possible.

To my husband’s friend – w4m

You are one of my husband’s friends. We don’t advertise this so you wouldn’t know but we have an open relationship. I’d like to express my interest in you but I don’t know if your wife would agree to you seeing me and I don’t want to cause issues. If you think I’m talking about you then reply back to my ad or text me and say where you last saw me. Other than our spouses we’d keep it discrete.

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creepy looking blondish pseudo goth boy – w4m (ellwood thompson’s)

we made prolonged eye contact in the boxed mac & cheese aisle. you gave me yacht club era ben cook vibes. black quilted jacket. i was the remarkably average looking girl buying boxed mac & cheese.

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I’ll always love you – m4w

You were the one, and I let you get away not once but twice in my life. I’ve loved you since I met you back at the beginning of high school years. We went seperate ways after school, but crossed paths again several years later. Neither of us were happy with our lives at the time so finally I had you in my arms. Our time spent together was the best i ever had. It was too difficult tho Bc you were still taken.. so we drifted apart. I’ve tried to keep in touch with you over the years, but we’ve grown farther apart. I still love you every day tho. And always will

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Kate at Daddios – m4w (west end)

You sang “I will survive” during Karaoke.

You’re a beautiful woman. I would have introduced myself but it was late, you had multiple companions with you, and I was too tired to get shot down by someone as good looking as you.

I’d love to have a conversation with you without the usual bar-room distractions.

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Gorgeous rear view as you ran at the park – m4w – 55 (south richmond)

You ran at the soccer fields in the park off Robious on Saturday afternoon. I was throwing a disc for my pal. You jogged by on the trail and had your form fitted running pants (dark gray or blue with a sheen that showed off a good looking bottom). Wow… I stared. Oh, yeah !

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You both had Red Shirts – w4m (SPCA)

You both where super cute. I’d love to chat, hopefully the dog you where looking at was a good fit and you adopted him. I’d love to hang out and play with the puppy, and get lunch with you.

What was the little one doing and we had to leave? You guys looked around 26-28? Somewhere in that area.

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You stole my shopping cart 😉 – m4w – 23 (Kroger)

I turned around and was like wtf, where’d my shopping cart go? I grabbed your cart and brought it to you on the other side of the store. Your reaction was priceless when you realized what happened. You were really pretty too, maybe we could get a drink sometime?

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Martin’s – m4m (West Broad)

To the hot guy at the Martin’s on west broad today around 10:15. You were in the men’s room and you had on red sneakers and grey sweats. You are one handsome guy. Tell me the color of your top and what color hair you have in the title. HMU. Would love to see the big package.

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X – w4m (Am Fam)

Are you being nice or are you interested? I know things are very bad at home….

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shell station – m4w (hull st & courthouse rd)

We talk and I flirt but I don’t know how you feel. You say you got a man but that don’t matter to me. Let me know what’s up!

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Brad Kutner

Brad Kutner

Brad Kutner is the former editor of GayRVA and RVAMag from 2013 - 2017. He’s now the Richmond Bureau Chief for Radio IQ, a state-wide NPR outlet based in Roanoke. You can reach him at BradKutnerNPR@gmail.com




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